As someone almost always focused on “getting there” or “making it”, I’ve been struggling lately with 1) the idea that my destination may be different than I had always imagined it and 2) that I have no idea where in the hell I even want my destination to be anymore. Which is a good thing–I don’t want to make choices for my life that I feel I am “supposed” to make, like the time when I was 12 and got bangs just like the most popular girl in our class (bad, wildly unattractive decision). So to avoid the awkward growing out period again, I’m doing a lot of questioning and evaluating and reflecting.
I need to set some goals–some real goals. Not off-the-top-of-my-head goals, like how I want to scale Mt. Kilimanjaro or wear less stretch pants–you know, the stuff that sounds cool or that you know you should do. I found these questions on a website and am using them to frame my writing exercise today.
Time to pull out that notebook, skeptic, and start penciling in some goals. Here are seven questions to get the ball rolling:
1. What are the eight things you value most in life?
2. In 30 seconds or less, write down the three most important goals in your life right now.
3. What would you do if you won $1 million?
4. What would you do if you only had six months to live?
5. What have you always wanted to do but have been afraid to attempt?
6. In looking back at all the things you’ve done, what gives you your greatest feeling of importance?
7. What one great thing would you dare to dream if you knew you could not fail?
Sounds like some pretty solid questions to me. Do you have set goals–the kind you have written down, the kind that other people know and will hold you accountable for? Please share–I’m interested.
I’ll keep you posted.
High Five of the Day: The man waiting for the Red Line at Fullerton wearing a “Binford Tools: Real Men Don’t Need Directions”. You know, like from the 90s tv show “Home Improvement”? My Dad and I used to watch “Home Improvement” religiously and still love watching reruns together. How awesome that this guy 1) procured a shirt advertising a fictitious tool show and 2) still wears it in public, 10 years after the show went off air.